“It's obviously great for women and mothers, but it's less obviously great for men, husbands, fathers, to garner insight into how our actions and inactions in life and relationships can roll downhill and harm others -- in this particular case, our wife, girlfriend, daughter, coworker, mother, neighbor, sister, or friend. I hope you'll join me in agreeing that it's not okay for other people to hurt simply because we're too comfortable or too busy to pay attention.”