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OMG I love this thank you!!! I wish I had this message when I was a teen but it’s great to see it going out loud and clear now!!

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Zawn! Not that I haven't valued all of your work, but *this* one post was what tipped me over to upgrade to paid, (because I kind of knew I was missing out on other goodness, but also because I really wanted to tell you this!)

I've said before that I love how so much of your advice is for women already in shitty situations, (so needed!) but my personal favorites are the ones that educate women on how to avoid those situations in the first place, when possible.

I have so many friends that knowingly ignored red flags, (or maybe weren't educated enough to know how serious they were?) hoping they could change a man, or accepted them because they so badly wanted children, (their words, not mine,) and I think this work of helping women to see what they're giving up when they do that, (it's not remaining childless- they're now raising the children on their own, anyway, just with extra dead weight,) is so invaluable.

Thank you!

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Mar 25, 2023·edited Mar 25, 2023

My heart bleeds for us because it is awful for all women out here, young and old. I have two daughters in their early to mid 20’s, one recently at the University of Georgia and now Augusta School of Nursing and the stories, the delusion and the denial are absolutely appalling. Woman hate is culture and feminism especially radical feminism is like the mark of the proverbial beast. Sex Consciousness is a must (that isn’t even foul-proof) and the depravity of the male species especially within heteronormativity has to be understood and discussed without rose colored glasses, but even that gets exhausting.

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