How do I stop missing my abuser? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus
A reader wonders how to stop grieving the relationship that could have--perhaps should have--been.
A reader asks…
How can I stop missing my abuser? I know he was awful for me, but I inevitably call him, only to suffer more abuse. And then somehow that abuse convinces me it was really my fault, or causes me to seek more validation from him.
I got out, which is supposed to be the hardest part. No one warned me about the grief.