Feminist Advice Friday Why do abusers only abuse some people? Feminist Advice paid subscriber bonusA reader wonders why some women have positive experiences with abusive men. Zawn VillinesAug 15, 2025∙ Paid1322012ShareA reader asks…You’ve mentioned that not all abusers end up abusing everyone and that’s why a positive endorsement from a woman about a man doesn’t mean much. What leads abusers to only abusing some people and not others?This post is for paid subscribersSubscribeAlready a paid subscriber? Sign inPreviousNext