Subscriber chat: What is the biggest challenge in your relationship right now?
Plus, a survey on what you'd most like to see in the next few weeks.
This is a subscriber chat. If this is successful, I might make it a semi-regular thing. And I’ll jump into the comments and participate as available.
So subscribers, what is the biggest challenge in your relationship right now? This can be your relationship with your partner, your kids, your parents, or anyone else.
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I want to make sure I’m giving you all what you most want and need. So I thought it might be helpful to let everyone vote on next topics. Here are some articles I’m considering.
Please vote on your *favorite* topic. If there are other topics you’re interested in (or aggressively not interest in), please leave a comment. If there’s enough interest, I may eventually cover all of these:
Feminist Reading list: Inspired by a recent AMA question, I’d love to share my recommended reading, links to other people covering topics I write about, and a general list of influences.
How I Chose My Partner: This one was also inspired by an AMA question. I would talk about how we met, how I screened him, and the questions and behaviors I think it’s important to explore when choosing a male partner.
Here’s why your partner doesn’t want to have sex with you: I’d build upon my recent post on why women lose interest in sex, and talk about the specific ways heterosexual men sexually alienate their partners.
How to be less sexist: Targeted to men, this would discuss strategies for men who want to be less sexist in their daily lives.
Why mother’s issues matter: I’m tired of feminism ignoring mothers, tired of mothers’ needs being dismissed as trivial, tired of mothers being treated as irrelevant and dull.
Other: If you have a topic you’d love to see covered, please leave it in the comments.
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Omg PLEASE write about how to be less sexist!!! I have a wonderful partner who is a staunch feminist and I’d love to share that with him. Also, I’d love the podcast!!! And TikTok videos would be amazing!!!
the content i love the most is when you just lay out how dumb the amount of work we're doing to mitigate these sensitive male feelings is. Keep up the straight blunt talk! also commentary on this article would be fabulous: https://hbr.org/2023/01/research-what-fragile-masculinity-looks-like-at-work