It seems true within feminism and without, that we assume mothers and marginalized women are stupid. Obviously, it's not worth arguing with people like that, but few of them will out themselves. Do you have any tips for telling when someone legitimately doesn't understand us vs. refuses to listen?
It seems true within feminism and without, that we assume mothers and marginalized women are stupid. Obviously, it's not worth arguing with people like that, but few of them will out themselves. Do you have any tips for telling when someone legitimately doesn't understand us vs. refuses to listen?
I think you should assume that, almost every time, it's that they're refusing to listen.
Fantastic article. This should be required reading for anyone who wishes to post/comment online.