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I'm a Legal Aid Lawyer, and have to defend abusive men. How can I do so ethically? Feminist Advice (paid subscriber bonus)
A reader wonders how to continue helping those in desperate need without enabling abusive men.
 • Zawn Villines
An exercise to put your feminist education to work
A chance to review some real communications with men and reflect on what's wrong with them
 • Zawn Villines
AI is making it easier for men to lie about having different brains. Don't believe them.
Men and women are not different species and do not have different types of brains. But men will happily admit to inferior brains if it means they don't…
 • Zawn Villines
Have I sexually harmed women in my life?
When your partner sexually coerces you, you can never feel safe or loved.
 • Zawn Villines
Am I willing to aspire to be a good man, rather than just a not-bad one?
Men often compare themselves favorably to the worst men rather than considering how they can aspire to be more like the best.
 • Zawn Villines
Loretta Ross: Calling In, Building Sustainable Activism, and Changing Minds
How do we bring more people into our movement, and manage our conflicts with the people who are already here?
 • Zawn Villines
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The myth of the bumbling nice guy
No, your husband isn't actually just a clueless nice guy.
 • Zawn Villines
How do my moods harm the people around me, and what can I do to better control them?
Bad moods are one of patriarchy's most insidious tools of control.
 • Zawn Villines
I'm scared to talk to my husband about household labor inequality.
A reader needs things to change, but she doesn't want the price to be aggression and anger.
 • Zawn Villines
What's the angriest I've ever been at a woman? What can it teach me?
Confronting your most misogynistic reactions can help you better understand and control your own behavior.
 • Zawn Villines
Do I give women the same emotional labor I receive from them?
Women are not emotional labor machines, though men certainly seem to think otherwise.
 • Zawn Villines
Do I weaponize feminism against the women in my life? Have I weaponized these prompts?
Patriarchy teaches men to weaponize whatever they can, including feminism.
 • Zawn Villines
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