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The wasps came back again, and tried to climb in my mouth. Again.

I regret having children. How do I cope? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

Feminism has a motherhood problem

How do I tell my child he's autistic? Feminist Advice Friday

'You're so resentful!' How abusive partners weaponize women's dissatisfaction

A syllabus on feminism, relationships, maternal feminism, and abuse

Does the Gottman method work, or is it just another way to reinforce misogyny? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

Men, not hormones, are the leading cause of postpartum depression

What do you say to people who call you a man-hater? Feminist Advice Friday

'You're never satisfied with anything!' How sexist men escape accountability

How can I be a good husband, not just a not-bad one? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

Why household labor inequity is abuse

Does the red pill guy get the girl? Feminist Advice Friday

'But I don't care about that task!' The weapons sexist men use

Do women pick bad men, or are abusers just skilled liars? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

Has he really changed?

Does neurodivergence mean I can't expect my husband to do his fair share? Feminist Advice Friday

Reader chat: Your favorite Feminist Advice Friday letter, plus a call for updates.

Ruining every vacation with a bad mood: The weapons sexist men use series (paid subscriber bonus)

My husband doesn't want to parent our baby: Feminist Advice Friday Bad Advice Edition (paid subscriber bonus)

How do I set boundaries with a friend in an abusive relationship? Feminist Advice Friday

The things sexist men say--and what they actually mean

Why couples counseling so often makes things worse

How do I get my young relative to recognize the abuse in her relationship? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

The top complaints men have about my work--and why I don't care about any of them

How can I talk to my child about my ex's behavior without badmouthing my ex? Feminist Advice Friday

The problem with Fair Play, and other systems for gaining household equality

How can I advocate for my neurodivergent child at school? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

My husband says feminism is too 'aggressive.' Feminist Advice Friday

Why is everyone obsessed with convincing women to get married?

Scheduled sex is coerced sex. Here's why.

Why do men hump their partners? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

Why do men so grossly overestimate their market value?

How do I help my kids manage screen time? Feminist Advice Friday

"Maybe he's neurodivergent!" Gaslighting women to excuse inequality and abuse

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Reader Question: How can I become a better writer?

Should I end my relationship with an underachieving partner? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

Do you have advice for raising a neurodivergent child? Feminist Advice Friday

Resources for women in crisis: Escaping domestic violence, financial assistance, and more

Do heterosexual men actually want sex? Or do they just want to complain about it?

My therapist tells me to have more 'feminine energy.' Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

Relationship red flags: An ongoing and detailed list

We're divorcing, but my ex expects me to manage his calendar: Feminist Advice Friday

"You sure sound bitter!" How men weaponize women's disappointment in men

Can a serial cheater and liar change? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

Welcome to motherhood. Fuck you.

How can we teach our daughters to deal with unwanted male attention? Feminist Advice Friday

Subscriber chat: What are you doing for Valentine's Day?

Why are so many men awful to their partners on Valentine's Day? Paid subscriber bonus

Should I have children? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

'You sure sound angry!' How patriarchy weaponizes women's anger

How can I be less of a people pleaser? Feminist Advice Friday

'You're being mean!' The Weapons Abusive Men Use series

My husband says family is an exception to rules about consent and bodily autonomy: Feminist Advice Friday

Bad Advice Friday: My partner refuses to treat me as an equal

Fear: The missing piece in men's understanding of sexism and of women

Why the threat of violence lurks in every unequal relationship

My feminist reading (and listening and learning) list: A master list of resources

Is it really true that none of us are responsible for other people's feelings? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

Do I have to leave my partner to fix relationship inequality? Feminist Advice Friday

The Not Just Men Hotline is here to help you with your #notjustmen emergency

'Men just grieve differently:' How we excuse men from meeting their partners' emotional needs

My husband is finally stepping up since I asked for a divorce. Am I the asshole? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

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Nice gets you killed: A plea to stop giving dangerous men the benefit of the doubt

How do I set boundaries with problematic relatives, without going no contact? Feminist Advice Friday

"You're the abusive one!" The Weapons Abusive Men Use series

I'm not teaching men for free anymore--and neither should you.

How can I prepare for motherhood? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

My husband makes constant sexist comments about my body: Feminist Advice Friday

Hello! You've reached the Not All Men Hotline!

No, it's not his 'love language,' and other harmful myths about men and sex

I can't trust my parents with my kids--or can I? Feminist Advice Friday paid subscriber bonus

How can I be a better feminist ally? Feminist Advice Friday

Why do we insist on pretending women don't work?

Why are so many 'straight' men grossed out by women's bodies?